he didn’t…so nothing was a plus…everything, even what i did well, was a flaw.  he never really loved me at all…

he didn’t…so nothing was a plus…everything, even what i did well, was a flaw.  he never really loved me at all…

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Sorry It’s Been So Long

Not that I believe you all really missed me or anything but this journey to becoming officially un|wed has been kicking my ass… mentally, emotionally, professionally, and financially.  It. Fucking. Sucks.  So it hasn’t afforded me a lot of time or brain-space to “tumble for ya.”  But I’m back in the swing of things, now.  Still on this hateful, spirit breaking, pride stifling journey, but I am determined to not let it get me to the point of losing the thing I love the most… my mind!

One good thing came out of my absence…more ammo for the book! Glad to be back friends :)


Q: Hey, un|wed, why are you anonymous?
A: Trust me, I’m not one to hide.  I’m as open as they come.  However, my anonymity is currently necessary.  See, I am still in the process of un|wed-ing.  My original plan was to journal about this until it was all over, said, and done.  Then l would let all flow from me like Niagra Falls.  Alas, the emancipation process is taking longer than expected and…well…I’m just too impatient.  I’m also too nice.  In my choice to remain temporarily anonymous, I unfortunately also protect “X” from the public humiliation he deserves.  Ah, me.  So for now, I am “un|wed” until I am unwed.  I anticipate my big reveal to occur simultaneously with a book announcement.